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Attachment Style

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Hayiii! kembali lagi dengan per-tes-an duniawi~ Tes Love Language udah, DISC udah, MBTI udah. Sekarang yang lagi rame: Attachment Style.  Apa sih Attachment Style? Attachment theory is a psychological theory that attempts to explain how people form and maintain relationships, particularly those between a child and their caregiver. These internal working models guide their later relationships with others, shaping how they approach intimacy, trust, and emotional regulation.  Gampangnya, teori untuk mengidentifikasi tipe seseorang dalam membentuk dan memelihara hubungan.  Terbagi jadi empat tipe:  1. Disorganized/fearful-avoidant 2. Avoidant/Dismissive 3. Anxious/preoccupied  4. Secure  Lengkapnya ada di sini Tes ini pendekatannya ada dua yaitu hubungan kita dengan caregiver atau orang yang emang deket sama kita (ibu, ayah, pasangan) dan general .  Desclaimer bahwa hasil tes ini tentu dinamis ya karena bergantung dari apa yang kita rasakan dana alamin s...
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Back to the Red Era

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Red Era comes back to the town and brings back so many memories for me. Old hopes there, sadness there, madness there, but Fellas right here with me until this day. Isinya keterharuan gue sama Fellas.  Xoxo. Alert!! Banyak isakan dan lebih banyak curhat. Thx! Bisa dengerin dari klik gambar di atas atau dari sini juga bisa
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There was You

4 pm on the early of cruel year We met after four years Separated by a busy life and ignored conversations You ordered something that you used to eat for breakfast After years, I found out it was not just your breakfast pick but your favorite I remember that day There was me in front of you My anxiety crept up all over my nerves It was hard to process-reflecting you who sat in front of me And you, the man who's lived in my head But there was you, grinned, laughed, and said that I didn't change I don't know. It was a joke or did you mean it? However, you caught me Could we go back to the time that you taught me the difference between flying and standing? Cause lately I don't know how to move and change Chiefly as fast as you Who move like a deer change like a monsoon After 6 hours of silence You took me home On our way, you wondered what true love is You said you never met But I thought you never try to see If only showed you what true love is as easy as showed you the w...
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