Attachment Style

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Hayiii! kembali lagi dengan per-tes-an duniawi~ Tes Love Language udah, DISC udah, MBTI udah. Sekarang yang lagi rame: Attachment Style.  Apa sih Attachment Style? Attachment theory is a psychological theory that attempts to explain how people form and maintain relationships, particularly those between a child and their caregiver. These internal working models guide their later relationships with others, shaping how they approach intimacy, trust, and emotional regulation.  Gampangnya, teori untuk mengidentifikasi tipe seseorang dalam membentuk dan memelihara hubungan.  Terbagi jadi empat tipe:  1. Disorganized/fearful-avoidant 2. Avoidant/Dismissive 3. Anxious/preoccupied  4. Secure  Lengkapnya ada di sini Tes ini pendekatannya ada dua yaitu hubungan kita dengan caregiver atau orang yang emang deket sama kita (ibu, ayah, pasangan) dan general .  Desclaimer bahwa hasil tes ini tentu dinamis karena bergantung dari apa yang kita rasakan dan alamin saat ...
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Questions

How does it feel to be in love and loved?
No trust issues, just mature love
Because for me, it's like guessing the shape of someone I've never met

They all hurt me, and I hurt them
It's like a never-ending game
I won't blame anyone
It's just a wound that hasn't healed yet and the right time hasn't come yet

Did I skip a chapter?
Or a page?
Have I just not found the right book
Or have I come to the wrong library?

They said that I didn't leave the door open
But who did they mean it to come over?
Boys only choose to play
While I prepare the house to stay

I wish the time would mend this mess
A man who is making up the rest
Taking my hand and wrecking my plan
Made my black and white into a daylight

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