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Attachment Style

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Hayiii! kembali lagi dengan per-tes-an duniawi~ Tes Love Language udah, DISC udah, MBTI udah. Sekarang yang lagi rame: Attachment Style.  Apa sih Attachment Style? Attachment theory is a psychological theory that attempts to explain how people form and maintain relationships, particularly those between a child and their caregiver. These internal working models guide their later relationships with others, shaping how they approach intimacy, trust, and emotional regulation.  Gampangnya, teori untuk mengidentifikasi tipe seseorang dalam membentuk dan memelihara hubungan.  Terbagi jadi empat tipe:  1. Disorganized/fearful-avoidant 2. Avoidant/Dismissive 3. Anxious/preoccupied  4. Secure  Lengkapnya ada di sini Tes ini pendekatannya ada dua yaitu hubungan kita dengan caregiver atau orang yang emang deket sama kita (ibu, ayah, pasangan) dan general .  Desclaimer bahwa hasil tes ini tentu dinamis ya karena bergantung dari apa yang kita rasakan dana alamin s...
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Today, you just saw my city drowned on the tv You drafted a message to ask my update You'll never know because I didn't post any And your adrenaline wasn't high enough to press that send button Or perhaps it wasn't about the adrenaline it's about your feeling doesn't enough to push making an efforts.
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KAN BISA SESIMPEL INI YA ALLAHHHH ya Rahman 
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 Tahun lalu, gue baru menemukan bahwa ada hal yang gak 'normal'. Gue tau kalo gue teledor dan ceroboh tapi ternyata kebiasaan gue ini membuahkan kebiasaan buruk lainnya. Setiap barang yang gue suka; hilang atau rusak, gue akan selalu me-replace barang hilang tersebut dengan barang yang sama persis. Gue gak mau merasa bersalah kalo barang itu hilang atau rusak. Gue mau merasakan bahwa barang tersebut masih tetep ada di sisi gue. Bahwa dia ga pernah hilang atau rusak. Gue mau cari tau apa penyebab kebiasaan gue ini. Apakah ada orang yang sama kayak gue? Gue tanya ke 3 temen gue. Mereka menjawab "engga. Akan beli dan cari yang baru." Loh, bukan hal yang common, dong? Gue akhirnya tanyakan hal ini ke temen kantor gue yg merupakan psikolog. "Sejak kapan?" "Aku gatau. Tapi yg pasti aku mereplace semua barangku yang hilang pas aku kerja. Karena mungkin aku punya uang sendiri dan bisa ambil decision sendiri untuk beli." Long story short, jawabannya adalah ...
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to: 26

Dear 26 myself, I just want to hug and thank you for giving your best throughout this uneasy year. You deserve all the good things in the world. You always ensure that you grow day by day into a better person, better woman, better daughter, better sister, and better friend. Thank you for keeping your ego and emotions calm when things didn't work out. At least you tried. I hope you can achieve your dreams this year, recognize yourself better, and find a lover to accompany you. It's normal to need someone. Life is hard; sometimes you need someone who understands you to lean on. But if you haven't found him yet, that's fine. He's still preparing to meet you. And you have plenty of time to grow and become the best version of yourself. Once again, thanks. You did well. Cheers to the next chapter and another journey. Xoxo
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 Udah 27 tapi belum bikin thanks 26 dan review 2024.  On Vacay.
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Selalu denial tiap ada yg bilang jadi kakak cewek itu berat. Karena gue ga ngerasa seberat itu.... MasyaAllah ternyata, di penghujung tahun ini ngerasain. Bismillah aja dl. 👍🙏
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